Understanding Her Desires

 Song 830: This week the playlist showcases If She Knew What She Wants by The Bangles, written by Jules Shear, and you can find a cool YouTube video of it by clicking on the title. While I had, by my mid-twenties, gotten beyond many of the male supremacist ideas that I inherited growing up in the 1950s and 1960s, in the spring of 1986, a female quartet proved that their gender could rock just as strongly and compellingly as my side of the divide. Initially, I think it did surprise me, but I really liked hearing them making their lively points. Around seven years earlier, ! had gotten crazy for this girl in that neighborhood, and if she knew what she wanted back then, I would have tried giving it to her. I found out, though, that she had so many ideas traveling around in her head that she didn't need anything from mine.

Request Information

 Song 829: This week the playlist comes around to Ask Questions by Jack Hardy, who also wrote the song, and you can find a YouTube video of it by clicking on the title. Seven weeks after my previous personal friend song post, this week's rhythmic advice comes from another one of my Fast Folk colleagues. In fact, he was one of the initial founders and central figures of the group. Back in the late 1980s and early 1990s, I would regularly join the gathering at his Manhattan apartment on Houston Street on Thursday in the early evening where we would each share our latest compositions. While I did get to hear some impressive Jack tunes, I don't think I heard him do this one back then. I do get his point, though, that history has eyes and history has ears, and that therefore, we regular citizens should climb up the hill to the capitol and dare to hold them accountable. One of the best ways to do that is to ask questions!

Beyond Someone

 Song 828: This week the playlist focuses on Over You by Gary Puckett & The Union Gap, written by Jerry Fuller, and you can find a YouTube video of it by clicking on the title.  When the end of the summer of 1968 arrived and I began my senior HS year, I started hearing about a Gary guy's frustrated efforts to distance himself from an obsession over a former romantic partner. I soon learned his chorus lines and would often sing along when I heard the anthem rising from a nearby radio. Ironically, during that era I developed a close friendship with an attractive young woman in my age range who had become a nearby neighbor when her family moved in to a house they bought about a half mile from my parent's place. I wasn't losing any sleep over her at the time, but I also didn't know how to play the romantic game, so the precious moments we knew did not have the kind of reverberations that the ones from Gary and his former lover did have.